I enjoyed reading
lunaesia 's post about what happened at the Feast of 'Ala in her community. I hosted Feast this time as well (along with one of my children), and I'd like to share what I did - since people here seemed to really enjoy it.
I printed up 1 sheet with 5 medium length selections from the Writings. I made a mix CD containing 8 or so Baha'i-themed songs that varied widely in genre and style, and that I was pretty sure no one else in the community had heard before, and I came up with a list of at least 10 songs that I know and/or could lead everyone in singing together.
Then I printed up a page that said in large, colorful letters:
1. READ or
2. SING or
3. PLAY CD or
4. PRAY or
5. PASS
The friends could choose to do any one of those things, and every option was chosen at least once by someone. I've done something similar before (for devotionals where we go around the room twice at least) without printing up an options page, but then every time someone else came in late, I'd have to stop and explain again what the choices were. The printed page worked much better. Next time I will put at the top of the paper - "Choose one".
I've also learned from the other times I've tried this:
1) No matter how many readings are on the piece of paper, the friends somehow feel that unless we've read them all, we are not "done", so 5 is a good number.
2) When given a choice, the friends here will sing twice as much as any other option, so I'd better be prepared to lead a LOT of songs. I just write down the first line. If I'm teaching something unfamiliar, I sing it at least 3 times in a row.
3) The mix CD makes a nice gift for a new Baha'i or any Baha'i that doesn't have a lot of Baha'i theme music.
I would love to have others try this and hear back how it works in your community, and if there is interest, I will post some tips here on songleading...for those of you that might not be very confident. :o)